someone better

I was listening to RX once again and the topic for their top ten of the day was “the difficult choices of your life.” One guy texted: I think I found my soulmate, my one great love. But the thing is I have a girlfriend of eight years. Though we’re not really having any problems, I just think that I would be happier with the other girl. Should I break up with my girlfriend and pursue the other girl or should I stay with my girlfriend and forever wonder what could’ve been?

Those were not his words exactly. I just rephrased it but you get the drift, right? Anyway, if I would be in the same situation, I probably would’ve gone crazy at this very moment. Mahirap talaga solusyonan ang ganyang problema. You really don’t know what choice to take and what decision to make.

I have never been in love. It’s true. All I had were what I call “Extreme Infatuation” which lasted for a month or two. So whatever opinion I will give about this issue are not based from any experience and should not be taken so seriously. I just want to give my two cents on the issue.

I have a couple of friends who broke up with their respective boyfriends because they thought that the other guys they found were better than the previous ones. Is this the right mindset?

Joe D’ Mango’s statement comes to mind: Love is not finding someone better. It is staying with the one you found and making it work.

True.

But there is a dilemma: What if the other girl IS REALLY your soulmate and that you would really be happier with her, what would you do?

MY OPINION: You can never be sure if the other girl is your soulmate. The fact remains that no matter what happens, you will always find someone better. You can say that I am siding with Joe D’ Mango because, what the hell, he is the MAN when it comes to love. But what he said is definitely true. You also have to take into consideration the feelings of your current girlfriend. Kawawa naman siya. She’s not perfect and so is the other girl you found. And that other girl you found have flaws that you may not like as well. Pareho lang din! I think all you need is to make things more fun with your current girlfriend. Spice things up. Do activities you’ve never done before. Make it exciting once again. Get that ‘kilig’ factor just like the first time. Remember what you love about your girlfriend in the first place. Go from there.

THE VERDICT: Forget the other girl. Stay with your girlfriend. Make it work. Spark things up.

In the end, you’ll realize that you’ve just made the right choice!

Random Notes:

* Pwede ko na ata palitan si Joe D’ Mango. Career ito!
* I am now sporting the ‘gay hairstyle’. You know, the one with the quasi-Mohawk with the side bangs and stuff. Gets? Gelo made me do it. He’s making me gayer everyday. I love it, though. It’s Siriano-fierce!
*Speaking of Gelo, he introduced me to a guy last Wednesday whose name is Patrick Valencia. Same as mine. The catch is…he’s gay too. Grabe! That is so COINCIDENCE INCARNATE. Sorry for using ‘incarnate’ once again. I know it’s getting old. Can’t help it. Sorry. Ang galing kasi! Sobrang coincidence.
* Maligno’s pilot was exceptional. I got to see Rafael Rossel’s butt crack for a split second. I wonder how it passed the MTRCB’s standards.
* My iPod has a new case and it’s purple. Ang bakla talaga!
* I bought new dvds of “Love In The Time Of Cholera”, Seasons 3 and 4 of “Project Runway” and Seasons 3, 4 and 5 of “Will and Grace.” Marathon na!
*Uno prelim grade ko sa Finance. Fair enough. Yabang. Ahahaha!
*Failed to watch “Manay Po 2”. Meron pa ba? My mom keeps bugging me to watch “When Love Begins…” with her. Eh ayoko talaga nun eh!
*Nag-report na kami ni eng blockmate ko. Okay naman. Hihi!
*MAY na! Grabe, time flies by so fast.
*I hope either Jolas or Rona goes home tomorrow.